A Sexxy Date Night

 

     First of all, did you notice the double XX’s that means you can take this as far as you want once I give you the fundamentals of a sexy date night. I did not say romantic, I said sexy and yes there is a difference. This night will not be about looking into one another’s eyes over candlelight while eating dinner. I am not promoting romance, I am talking about a hot sexy night with your man.
Lets start the instructions with setting the scene before you even leave home, let your man know the only thing on your mind is a night with him. This can be done by kissing him and whispering these words in his ear, sending a text message(bonus points if you include a hot photo but noting to racy, you are just setting the expectation not giving away the plans) or leaving him a note(that’s old school but still works, and I promise you he will still have that note 10years from now).
     Step two, set the mood with your clothing for the night, less may be more if you are comfortable with that. What ever you wear it needs to be hot and show off your best assets.  Step out of your comfort zone and wear something you never would such as a corset, a form fitting dress. or one of his shirt with sexy lingerie underneath. Remember the idea is to let him know it is going to be a hot night. If he ask any questions about your clothing choices smile and say “I wanted to make sure I have your attention tonight”. Your makeup should demand a little attention tonight but don’t over do it. A man does not want to kiss a face full of foundation.
     The final step is the ambiance, I am telling you from experience some guys freak out when they see the romance thing happening because they do not know how to respond or what they should do. However every man knows how to respond to his woman when he sees she has gotten sexy just for him. Light Soy candles, they smell great and the wax can be used as a massaging oil when lit. Instead of wine have chilled Champagne and tell him you are celebrating the end of a long week and the beginning of a night with him. Keep dinner light, this night is not about slaving over a hot stove, I don’t  consider that romantic unless he is the one cooking.
    
Put on your favorite music, or even a good movie (nothing girly please), the goal is sitting together in one another’s company with physical contact, but take it slow. There is no need to rush the night, enjoy yourself and master the art of flirting with your man. Keep the mood light, if you build this huge expectation in your mind, you may be disappointed. Unless he can read your mind, he will not know what you are expecting, do not hold him to romantic superhero standards. Keep the mood flirty with a little seduction he will enjoy this side of you as long as you are comfortable with yourself. The night is about you being with your man so just enjoy it.


Stay tune for part 2, A Sexxy Bedroom