Not A Good Time

  

Ladies while the key to this blog is getting to sexy, I must discuss with you times when that sexy side of ourselves should be tucked away.

Lets Review:

• Family outings i.e barbeques, picnics, dinners at grandma house

This is not the place to flaunt your curves, fall back and just enjoy your time with family. If you have been working on your body and want to show it off then pick clothing that is figuring flattering, and slimming without putting yourself on display

• Hanging out with your man and his friends

If your man is cool with you dressing a certain way around his friends then cool, but I suggest keeping it cute and/or classy, and not show up with everything on display. It is more respectful that way.

• Work related functions

Be noticed for the work that you do and contribute not the tight black dress and juicy red lips you are showing off. If there is a co-worker you are trying to impress then a little flirting will get the message across.

• The kids sports games/functions

JUST DON’T! I have see it with my own two eyes, you should be there to cheer your child on not pick up a date for the weekend, again if there is someone there you want then strike up a conversation, smile, extend an offer to grab something to eat after the game. It is called flirting….

• Church

Again, I have seen it for myself so I am putting it out there.

• Your friend’s wedding/birthday party/baby shower

It is ok to allow others to shine, the spotlight is bright enough for all of us.