Couples Resolutions

So, some of us made individual resolutions to lose weight, eat healthy, spend more time with family, ect…… How many of us made couples resolutions with the love of our life to make things better, hotter, more intimate between each other(I never have, and this is how this latest blog idea was conceived). What would a couples resolution look like, so I did some research and the ones I came across sucked such as eat mindfully, sweat together, stop squabbling, and start a new hobby together. Except for the sweat together, which can be interpreted a few ways in my mind the other ones was not giving me realistic resolutions so I created some of my own for you to consider:

1. Make time for each other, no kids, no friends, no electronics. I know this is hard on a couple of levels but it is important. I won’t give you the details on how to do it, that is for you to work out according to what is getting in your way of your one-on-one time but what I will say is do something about it.

2. Do that special thing that you do more than once a year or according to special holidays i.e birthdays, valentines day……You know what I mean, spontaneity can be a wonderful thing and could be a win win for the both of you.

3. Take a deep breath and think about what you will say before you just let it fly out of your mouth, this will save a bigger fight from starting and the feeling of regret later.

4. Remember the past, live in the present, and plan your future together……

5. Be opened to new things or be willing to try it once, unless it is to far out in left field for you then try finding some middle ground. The point is to be open and willing to grow with one another.

6. Add more intimacy to the things you do together, I won’t put in writing what you should do I am sure that the both of you can figure that out without examples.

7. Don’t take one another for granted

Now you may be thinking what does this have to do with getting to my sexy? well nothing makes a woman more willing to show off her sexy side then a woman who is happy. When you feel good, then you look great and you want to look sexy for you man because he is the one putting that smile on your face.