Resolutions?

   

     How many of you have made resolutions for 2015? At the end of every year women make resolutions to improve themselves in some way. A complete overhaul from the year before, and many of us will not follow through and here is why I believe we don't. When we make resolutions we make them with the pretext that we are flawed in some type of way and must start a new year with a new you. Now, was the old you really that bad? we all could use little tweaks,and adjustments here or there but sometimes our resolutions-which are our feelings about ourselves make it seem as if we have to make ourselves over. Lets try being a little kinder to ourselves and upgrade ourselves instead of tearing ourselves down and rebuilding. We could all use a little upgrading in our lives rather it is a new attitude(stop being a negative Nelly), our clothing style(I have many blogs on this topic-pick one), a new man(we will talk on that topic soon), or a new way of doing things(you can't be a sexy confident woman if you are stuck in the past or in a rut, let go exhale and get to steppin in a better direction). I love myself flaws and all, I use to be and feel insecure and look for ways to make myself better in my eyes, I had to change my thinking of rebuilding myself to what I believe was perfect and just upgrade the me that I am into something more.
     Now, you may be thinking what is the difference? I am who I am for a reason, my creator made me this way for the purpose he has for me in this life, who am I to change that? To upgrade yourself is to take who you are and build on that, it is not a tear down to put the puzzle back together, it is adding additional pieces to the puzzle to make the picture bigger and better. Take a step back and truly look at who you are from the inside out. List all the positive things if you need a visual, then if there is anything you still want to improve for yourself think about how you will "upgrade" yourself, no resolutions just an upgrade. For all those that don't know getting to your sexy is the ultimate upgrade because it brings confidence within yourself that no one can touch. You walk with your head held high, a strut in your step, and a sway in your hips that says I am happy with who I am.

Happy 2015 Ladies!