Books vs Real Life Somethings Are Only Possible On Paper

    I am a fan of Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, I loved the story and loved the hot, sexy chemistry between the characters. The sex scenes opened your imagination up to something you may not have even known about or though about. Here lies the problem since reading the book I have expanded my reading to other books, some along the lines of Fifty Shades and others not so much but still hot to read(I will give you a list later). I started wondering exactly how much of these sexual encounters were actually doable in real life. Yes, we would all want our man to take us in the car after a sexually charged dinner, or in the bathroom of a club or party, even in an elevator. Now how many of these acts are actually possible to pull off. I think we would all, if not some of us would like to have that experience but trying it in real life is completely different.
     Without giving to much information I have had several experiences that seemed like a hot sexy idea but panned out different results that I can not disclose to protect the innocent and injured(my husband would kill me if I  put it in writing but 10+ years later he is still traumatized). I am just saying as ladies we can get caught up in some things but just know there is nothing like the real thing even if he is not ripping off your underwear in the heat of passion. As Christian Grey learned , there is nothing wrong with vanilla love. Now if you still want to experience this type of thrilled at least once in your life, I advise you to move into it with slowly. Dip your big toe in first, wade around a little, and slowly emerge yourself into the deep end.
More to come........