This weekend is the big one for many ladies. It is the day your man is suppose to go for it and show you just how much he loves you. Chocolate, roses, jewelry, the whole big bang. Our expectation are high and some of us have even dropped hints. If Valentine's Day is your big holiday then I wish you a wonderful day. Some of us just look at it as if it's just another day for one reason or another and that's OK too. My point is not to let one day(holiday) defy your love by what you do or do not receive.
If you have one of those guys that shows his love by going all out and sweeping you off your feet with the full romance experience (I am jealous) happy for you. If you have a man who you have to nudge, kick or even strong arm to celebrate the holiday then handle your business but keep in mind that if you don't request heart and flowers throughout the year making him do it on this one particular day may seem meaningless to him. You deserve hearts and flowers regularly so set that expectation that you are more than just a once a year kind of girl.
If you don't have someone to share this holiday with it's OK. Do something for yourself if that makes you happy or just chill for the night with a bottle of wine, a good book or a movie with a cute movie star(to many to name but I am sure Netflix will have a good line up for you). Remember the love you have for yourself trumps love from anyone else every time, Happy Valentine's to me with unconditional love.
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